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Self care is also love!
If the person has children, is the kids fault. If works somewhere, is the works fault. If takes care of the home, is the routine fault. If has a partner, is the partners fault. And if has all of this together, is all the problems fault. Everything is more important than us. Always. We, women, are educated since birth to not understand our role in this world, but the importance of taking care of the other. And sometimes we do forget about self care, it becomes not important. The day passes by with so many things to do that it turns into “tomorrow I will do it”.And tomorrow, tomorrow, till the day is too late. We develop a disease, a mental health issue, and still we keep forwarding the selfcare. Some days we think that the world will fall, isn’t true? There’s no self esteem that can handle that.At first we think that’s the meaning of love. We priorize the partner because that’s love. The children because we do love them. The work, because we love it. But I need to tell you the truth: no. It’s not that. They are lying to you. Do you know why? Because there is no way to love someone else without loving yourself first. Who loves, takes care, but especially takes care of themselves.How you will take care of your baby if your mental health is not doing well? If your back hurts, if your head is spinning… How are you gonna feel amazing with that cute guy/girl if you look yourself in the mirror and do not like what you see? My dear friend, stop everything that you are doing and listen to me: self care is everything in this life. Really.Flight attendant teach to place your oxygen mask first and than you help the person besides you right? Self care dear. Self care.Look, I know that most of people here od not have time and money to think about taking care of themselfes. But is possible even with short time and lack of money. Check it out.Basics self care